

No matter how extraordinary a service you provide, somewhere along the way you will meet difficult customers. We know something about it. Difficult customers are as inevitable as cold and rainy autumn after a nice and warm summer. You just have to deal with it, best by preparing your mindset for it.
There are two ways to think about difficult customers.
One is that the customer is always wrong. And you don鈥檛 have to listen to them, because everything is allright without service. The second approach is to spend some extra time with every difficult customer. You listen to them carefully and explain your product. But at the same time, you鈥檙e not scared to consider the possibility of them being actually right.
In both approaches, you鈥檒l need to learn something about handling difficult customers anyway. You can achieve that by understanding their personality types and their way of thinking better.
Here are 4 types of difficult customers explained using situations that happened during our chats. Plus, advices on how to deal with them.
Mr. I want it now
This is the kind of customer who doesn鈥檛 care about the fact that something is not available or can鈥檛 be done at the moment. He can鈥檛 imagine you don鈥檛 have some features or service. He can鈥檛 believe you鈥檙e closed at 6pm and you don鈥檛 offer any additional contact after this hour. Also, he can鈥檛 show it in any other way than by resorting to anger. He usually use phrases like: 鈥淚 can鈥檛 believe it鈥, 鈥淵ou suck!鈥, 鈥淚 want this solved鈥, 鈥淚 want it now or I鈥檒l go to your competitors!鈥
Situation on chat:
Like every business, we sometimes experience big issue, such as DDoS attacks. It takes time to fight them off and it mostly doesn鈥檛 depend on us. Mr. 鈥淚 want it now鈥 comes to chat and thinks we have something like a 鈥渇ix鈥 button, and he can鈥檛 understand why we don鈥檛 use it.
How to deal with this:
The longer I think about it, the more I believe that Mr. 鈥淚 want it now鈥 type of customer doesn鈥檛 understand that not everything can be done.
It鈥檚 not that he is a mean person in general, forcing you to do something that can鈥檛 be done. It鈥檚 just things are simply not as he imagined. So he threatens to leave, but it often means that he is insecure with his own business.
Be patient and never respond with emotions. Wait for the customer to calm down and explain in respect to his or her situation. Learning to say no to a customer can also be useful.
Mr. Complainer
From what I鈥檝e learned in life, it鈥檚 really hard to satisfy people who are complaining. It鈥檚 not because you can鈥檛 solve their problem, it鈥檚 because they are constantly creating new problems themselves and keep on complaining about them. It鈥檚 just their nature. They don鈥檛 like the feeling of being happy and satisfied.
Situation on chat:
This customer type comes to chat and has a grudge about any changes in our application.
He can鈥檛 understand that we evolve and need to redesign the look of our app. He complains about it and claims he loved the older version. Yet, he forgets about the changes after a week. He gets used to the new look, falls in love with it and can鈥檛 remember the previous one.
How to deal with this:
Even if sometimes you鈥檒l manage to fix 鈥渢he problem鈥, complaining customers might not even notice it. One thing is sure 鈥 pretty soon, they will find another 鈥減roblem鈥. It鈥檚 because of their personality type - they鈥檙e grumpy.
And speaking of grumpy 鈥 their face and mind is not different from the grumpy cat. You don鈥檛 expect a grumpy cat to appreciate something and be pleasant, right? You watch the memes and laugh out loud. Try this approach with the complaining customer. Don鈥檛 forget to laugh inside.
Mr. Lazy
It鈥檚 funny because usually the problem is a lazy service. But what about the lazy customer? Have you met one? Mr Lazy wants to do as little as possible on his own. He expects that you鈥檒l do everything for him. He pays you, so sometimes he requires that you do a little more for him.
Usually he doesn鈥檛 want to overuse the authority though. He is just a lazy person in general. You can鈥檛 expect any initiative from him in doing things he doesn鈥檛 feel like doing.
Situation on chat:
Sometimes we have a situation when a client doesn鈥檛 want to take care of his invoices from 89点怎么玩. He comes to chat and asks us to send the invoice to his accountant for him.
How to deal with this:
Laziness is just a habit. It means it can be changed. In our case, Mr. Lazy needs to make a habit out of sending invoices to the accountant.
We can teach him that it鈥檚 easy to do and it takes only a few minutes. If he does it a few times, chances are he will form a new habit. And he will take care of his invoices every month.
Does it mean that you shouldn鈥檛 go the extra mile for a customer when he asks you to? Well, it all depends on the situation. I鈥檓 a big fan of doing a little extra for a customer but within reason. Whatever you decide, keep in mind, should Mr. Lazy get used to your help it will be hard to teach him to do differently.
Mr. I know better
This customer type doesn鈥檛 have to be a mean or angry customer, like Mr. 鈥淚 want it now鈥. But he surely has an issue with accepting the answer he doesn鈥檛 like. The arguments don鈥檛 get to him. He is convinced of being right and it鈥檚 almost impossible to change his beliefs.
Situation on chat:
A customer claims on chat that some features don鈥檛 work right. After looking into it and explaining that everything works fine, the customer simply doesn鈥檛 agree. He quits the chat and comes back later hoping another agent will give him a different answer.
How to deal with this:
In most cases everything is working OK. The problem is that a customer doesn鈥檛 have sufficient knowledge about your product. He argues because he鈥檚 convinced he is right.
First what you can do is to give a positive feedback about his concerns. Then, your job is to patiently explain how your product actually works. If he still insists that he is right, sending some statistics or a link to your knowledge base might be a good idea. His concern is probably explained there in detail.
If you give him resources and space to think about it, maybe he will notice he was wrong. And he wouldn鈥檛 have to admit it to you directly.
Since it鈥檚 hard for people to admit that they鈥檙e wrong, imagine how hard it is for Mr. 鈥淚 know better.鈥
Handling difficult customers
There always will be types of customers who are not satisfied with your product or service. Your job is to understand them and accept it. If you manage to do that, you鈥檒l able to effectively deal with them.
And who knows, maybe one day they鈥檒l serve you as a source of inspiration to change something in your business.